Post by Mary Sartain on Oct 6, 2014 18:15:05 GMT -5
I don't really want to cause more drama since the original thread's been locked and all, but since my name's getting dragged through the mud here, I'd like to put in my two cents.
Alright, well, here's the thing: I never actually said anything like that to anybody. I was aliasing in that game, until you outed me here. I'd love to see a screenshot of me telling anybody in the game about this one and/or telling them you're some kind of sex-crazed maniac.
Which makes sense, because, again, I didn't actually do that. As you might have gleaned from what I posted in my confessional, I want nothing to do with you. Going around telling everybody you're a date rapist would probably do the exact opposite of achieving that goal, as evidenced by the fact that this post exists. It's also worth noting that the mature thing to do in this sort of situation would be to a) ask for proof before posting this kind of thing in public, and b) to confront me about it directly before posting this kind of thing in public. As it stands, you're falsely accusing me and outing my alias in another game because of something I didn't do.
Yes, I'm a man. When I see another male person talk that way to a girl, and make her feel embarrassed about herself and feel afraid, even as a "joke," then I find it offensive. Some folks might say that standing up and defending women is a manly thing to do, since such actions trace their roots back to medieval notions of chivalry, etc., but that's a relative viewpoint so I can't say that you're entirely wrong.
Also, just as a note - calling me a "cuntrag" and an "asshole" is a personal attack, which has nothing to do with how I played this game. Similarly, in your original post you make personal attacks against my character and my real life, and then out my alias in another game. Those things are pretty much the dictionary definition of failing to keep this game in this game.
In conclusion, if you look at it from a logical perspective, either it's the case that when someone is pathetic it's okay to bring cross-game drama in, in which case you have no reason to be mad, because I do think you're pathetic so cross-game drama is fair play, or it's never okay to bring cross-game drama even if you think the other person is pathetic, in which case you're violating your own standard.
Since I didn't actually bring cross-game drama in this case, and you do not have any proof beyond some mysterious stranger's testimony, your initial complaint is invalid. Since you're taking your personal attacks outside the bounds of the game, your initial complaint is invalid again, and all of your secondary complaints about my character are either invalid or logically also apply to you. If you'd like to reassess your position, attempt to find a screenshot that doesn't exist, dispute or refute my conclusions, feel free.
For those who don't know I AM COHOSTING another game. Absolutely NOTHING to do with CYS. It was brough to my attention Brenda and Abi are telling girls not to let Yul, myself a cohost, know they are female because im some sex crazed maniac. I was absolutely floored that these two cuntrags would take it so far as to run my name through the mud in a separate game that has absolutely nothing to do with CYS and those are some pretty fucked up accusations.
Alright, well, here's the thing: I never actually said anything like that to anybody. I was aliasing in that game, until you outed me here. I'd love to see a screenshot of me telling anybody in the game about this one and/or telling them you're some kind of sex-crazed maniac.
Obviously outside the game of survivor I am a very different person, like most NORMAL people who play this game I would assume. The fact that Jefra and Mary are taking some bullshit like that and taking it to another game that I am cohosting in is BEYOND pathetic. I was floored when I heard BRENDA AND ABI are spreading my name. That's fuckin ludicrous. I understand Jefra doesn't know any better and is a bit slow but for crissakes Mary has a brain...I wouldn't expect THAT from her.
Which makes sense, because, again, I didn't actually do that. As you might have gleaned from what I posted in my confessional, I want nothing to do with you. Going around telling everybody you're a date rapist would probably do the exact opposite of achieving that goal, as evidenced by the fact that this post exists. It's also worth noting that the mature thing to do in this sort of situation would be to a) ask for proof before posting this kind of thing in public, and b) to confront me about it directly before posting this kind of thing in public. As it stands, you're falsely accusing me and outing my alias in another game because of something I didn't do.
I mean fuck, what makes it worse is this dude is actually a GUY so you'd understand if it was a girl bent outta shape but it's a GUY throwing a hissy fit...FOR FUCK SAKES GROW A PAIR OF BALLS and act like a man. I feel very sad for you both.
Yes, I'm a man. When I see another male person talk that way to a girl, and make her feel embarrassed about herself and feel afraid, even as a "joke," then I find it offensive. Some folks might say that standing up and defending women is a manly thing to do, since such actions trace their roots back to medieval notions of chivalry, etc., but that's a relative viewpoint so I can't say that you're entirely wrong.
Also, just as a note - calling me a "cuntrag" and an "asshole" is a personal attack, which has nothing to do with how I played this game. Similarly, in your original post you make personal attacks against my character and my real life, and then out my alias in another game. Those things are pretty much the dictionary definition of failing to keep this game in this game.
In conclusion, if you look at it from a logical perspective, either it's the case that when someone is pathetic it's okay to bring cross-game drama in, in which case you have no reason to be mad, because I do think you're pathetic so cross-game drama is fair play, or it's never okay to bring cross-game drama even if you think the other person is pathetic, in which case you're violating your own standard.
Since I didn't actually bring cross-game drama in this case, and you do not have any proof beyond some mysterious stranger's testimony, your initial complaint is invalid. Since you're taking your personal attacks outside the bounds of the game, your initial complaint is invalid again, and all of your secondary complaints about my character are either invalid or logically also apply to you. If you'd like to reassess your position, attempt to find a screenshot that doesn't exist, dispute or refute my conclusions, feel free.
